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It’s been over a year since I last wrote to you—and what a year it’s been. I’ve had to face many uncomfortable challenges, and while I wouldn’t say they were welcome, they invited me into a period of intense growth. As all my good pets know, facing discomfort is very often the key that unlocks deeper pleasures.

So, I have been thinking deeply about the work I do and what fulfills me about it. In These Difficult Times™, I believe it is not only our right but our salvation to press fully into our desires. Making that brave journey to the core of ourselves, following the path lighted by our longing, and unearthing the precious jewels of our sexuality is a difficult but rewarding adventure. Simply put: if there was ever a time to go whole-hog on being the freaks that we are, that time is NOW.

But it’s hard to do alone! Delightfully, you don’t have to. I am introducing a couple of options for those who are ready to stop yearning and start stepping into your whole sexual self.

For the submissive who aches to serve, the cuck who longs for their place, the worshipper who craves surrender, the chaste who require discipline, and all others who seek the benefit of a strong female dominant in their lives, I am accepting applications to serve. Instead of catching me on NiteFlirt from time to time, you will have scheduled, uninterrupted access to me through phone sessions, text check-ins, custom tailored assignments/calendars, and personalized audio recordings.

For our mutual convenience, I am offering package deals: choose the amount and type of services you’d like to indulge in for the month, and I’ll give you a discount ranging from 10-25%! This allows you to wisely budget, schedule our sessions for privacy and anticipation (my favorite!), and save some money. Inquire within to seek your place 😉

My second offering is kink & relationship coaching. I have always provided this, but I’ve been enjoying it so much that I wanted to formalize the process. Most people do not have someone they can talk to about their vanilla sex lives, much less their deepest kinks! Enter: yours truly. Long before I ever received my Masters in Social Work, friends always came to me with fidgety hands and mischievous eyes to spill their sexual escapades and relationship troubles, knowing I’d listen with an open mind and offer nonjudgmental insight.

If you are wrestling with the emergence of new kinks, desires, or identities, wanting to bring kink into an existing relationship or find one where it is welcome, or love talking about kink and sexuality but don’t have a fellow enthusiastic conversationalist, kink coaching might be exactly the ticket for you! As a decades-long student of kink, human sexuality, social systems, sexual rights, and alternative relationship structures, I am ready to be your guide on your journey through releasing shame and embracing your vibrant sexual self.

I am happy to accommodate those who just want the occasional session, a weekly meeting, or anything in between! Reach out and let’s talk.

I am also hoping to release new videos, audios, and more each month! (I say hoping because my aspirations do not always line up with my capacity—but it is my intention to make these creations). Every month will have a new theme: February, in honor of one of my favorite holidays, will be Love Goddess. Think pink silk, red roses, swirling smoke, flickering candles, my honeyed voice dripping into your ear as I wrap a spell around you and you sink deep into my warm embrace… These delights will be coming to IWantClips and NiteFlirt over the course of the month. Have a theme you’d like to see me explore one month? Send me your ideas! I love hearing what your dirty minds have conjured up.

Well pets, I hope to speak with you very soon 😉
Be good,

Ava