Ava Grayle


Gifts are always appreciated, and are a wonderful way to show that I am on your mind. A thoughtful purchase to bring joy and comfort to my life does not go unnoticed! 


Tips and tributes are one of the best ways to show your appreciation. I am currently able receive these on Niteflirt and I Want Clips.

Please be discreet with accompanying messages.


Currently unavailable–but you can always ask! 😉


I love books and have an ever-growing wishlish; take a look at my desired titles and pick something out. Bonus points for buying from Bookshop.org or a local store!


Fresh flowers make my heart sing–send me a bouquet from Social Flowers! Use ava.grayle@protonmail.com to send.

Gift Cards

Gift cards are always welcome; sponsor my passions or treat me to a little luxury. Some of my favorite places to use a gift card:

Bluestockings – My favorite bookstore for fascinating titles and community care.

Chewy – I love my pets! Keeping them happy makes me happy.

Strange’s – I am always planting new things. Help me grow my garden!

Lush – A luxurious treat to keep my baths fragrant and my skin soft.

Bookshop.org – More books! I always have a long list of titles I’d like to read; feed my habit.

Gift cards may be sent to ava.grayle@protonmail.com. Please sign your name so I know who to thank, and keep gift messages discreet.

Pay It Forward

Donations to organizations doing the good work of harm reduction, sex worker & LGBTQ rights advocacy, and community care are a thoughtful touch to express your care for the communities I belong to. Below are a few of my favorite organizations fighting the good fight.

River City Harm Reduction

Mutual Aid Distribution RVA

Sex Worker Outreach Project Behind Bars


Whose Corner Is It Anyway?

Electronic Frontier Foundation

Ava will be on vacation May 13-21

All requests will be responded to on May 22