Welcome to my realm…

In our ever-shifting online world, I wanted to make sure we have a place where we can stay connected. Join me here to learn about new adventures and offerings.

Why a newsletter?

With the increasing instability of social media and other platforms where you can find me, I want to create a space where you can follow me wherever I may go! As an additional bonus, you’ll receive updates directly to your inbox—no worrying about missing a post or forgetting to check my website.

What to expect:

• Be the first to find out about potential tour dates, availability, and new content.

• Access to occasional musings, fantasies, and glimpses into my deviant mind.

• 1-2 newsletters per month. (Perhaps less, but never more).

So much of sexuality—particularly when it comes to kink and fetish—is figuring out the thoughts and foundations undergirding our desires. It can be a muddy, messy process, and the answers can be complex. While much discussion of sex focuses on its physical manifestation, any good kinkster knows that what happens in the mind is what creates the shiver up the spine, the twitch of nerve endings, the thrill of pleasure. In a word, anticipation: the excitement of not knowing whether that anticipation will be affirmed or subverted.

So much of sexuality—particularly when it comes to kink and fetish—is figuring out the thoughts and foundations undergirding our desires. It can be a muddy, messy process, and the answers can be complex. While much discussion of sex focuses on its physical manifestation, any good kinkster knows that what happens in the mind is what creates the shiver up the spine, the twitch of nerve endings, the thrill of pleasure. In a word, anticipation: the excitement of not knowing whether that anticipation will be affirmed or subverted.